Shut the fuck up about 50 shades of grey. No one fucking cares
let me just give you a quick run down of all the things wrong with this ask:
1-you assume i care what some asshole anon has to say when i have 300 pounds and i’m going kikass birthday shopping today
2-you assume id care about some asshole anon any other day of the year
3-i care about the 50 shades of grey thing. and whether you do or not is irrelevant to me because you are, after all, just an asshole anon
4- this is my blog and i’ll post whatever the fuck i want, if you cant take threefuckingposts about something without turning into a soggy cum stained dishrag then i suggest you make use of that unfollow button because youre gross
5- lemme break this down for you
if you dont care about this 50 shades situation, you need to grow the fuck up and look at the facts
the fact is the book was so misinformed that all the practises about bdsm culture were ignored and shit all over.
he ignores the safeword
he legitimately rapes her
he never explains everything about bdsm culture to her, shes so misinformed its ridiculous
and all of this is going even more public than it already has and its being romanticised and released on valentines day
like “happy valentines honey! i bought some ropes i dont actually know how to tie and a whip i dont actually know how to use and i’m going to just gloss over the fact you’re uncomfortable because that clearly doesnt matter!”
incorrect use of a whip can cause organ failure
incorrect knots used on wrists or feet can literally cause them to need to be amputated
its perpetuating rape culture in ways ive never seen it be advanced to this leve; and if you dont care then youre truly disgusting
you dont care about the kids not fully understanding their sexuality being abused by older people who they think are totally allowed to do this shit?
you dont care about the people that will be raped because of this because hey apparently rape is sexy?
you dont care about the fact that the bdsm culture is, once again, being portrayed as people who are fucked up and must have been abused to be that way rather than normal people who enjoy a kink in their own homes?
you dont care about the fact that youre not supposed to bleed on your first time. ever. and now tons more girls are going to think that its completely normal? that tons more guys will? that tons of people are going to think its expected for the female to bleed when SHE WONT IF SHES BEEN SUFFICIENTLY TURNED ON AND STRETCHED ITS REALLY NOT THAT HARD
you dont care about the stereotype of subs not actually enjoying bdsm culture is being widespread? that all subs dislike it and simply have an ulterior motive?
you dont care about the underlying message of the book being “a woman should give everything, including herself, to a man”?
you dont care about all the people in abusive relationships that will think “oh well this must be normal then” and stay there?
christian grey is a run-of-the-mill abusive boyfriend. he isnt a dom.
a dom loves his/her sub completely and the motto of bdsm is "safe, willing and sane" (or something like that anyone feel free to correct me)
it means that both partners have to be completely willing, with boundaries, safewords and everything worked out before they even think about touching eachother intimately.
if something is a boundary, you dont fucking do it
if the safeword is used it stops. everything stops
a dom should treat his sub like a goddamn princess (unless they have prearranged and understand that he wont eg-pet play, slave play where anything outside of the bedroom is also in the same dynamic HOWEVER IT IS STILL CONSENSUAL SO IT IS STILL OKAY)
a dom is not christian grey
but millions of people are going to think he is and are going to think that thats the way bdsm should be and they’ll get involved in something very dangerous if they dont have the real facts.
that people will think its romantic because this shit is scheduled for valentines day to treat your partner like shit, abuse her, and that what? getting them off absorbs you of all your shit? no. this is so fucking gross and im not taking a backseat when this shit happens
so in conclusion
literally fuck you, you insensitive fuck stain, this issue is so fucking important.
i don’t understand why people don’t instantly respond to “what would your dream superpower be” with the ability to manipulate probability. think about it. what’s the chance someone will drop 1mil in front of me? 0%? let’s make that 100%. what’s the probability i’ll wake up tomorrow and be X gender? 100%. what’s the probability my bathtub is filled with mac and cheese? 100%.
as a casino employee I can confirm this would be terrifying as fuck
I met you. I developed a friendship with you. I never thought in a million years we would ever be together. I fell in love with our friendship, our fun travels/raves/shows/parties, the person you were, the ideals you held. You were funny and kind. You were there for me. I fell in love with you before I ever fell for you. It would have only been a matter of time. I love you John🐻
I have a fucking problem with people showing off their self harm. It’s fucking lame. Grow the fuck up. You don’t need attention for something like that. People are suffering and you are making it a show.
The anticipation of moving grows everyday! I can’t freaking wait!! Only problem is I know I need a lot of things before I move in. New things for the apartment and to stock up on pet supplies so it’s one less worry. Money will always and forever be the death of me. Shit was easier when mommy and daddy paid the billz 😂
I wish people would educate themselves about anxiety, depression, personality disorders, tremors, and insomnia before proclaiming to the world that they have whatever it is. Or at least get a doctor to confirm that you ACTUALLY suffer. I’m really sorry to those of you who REALLY DO deal with these crippling abnormalities and those dealing with loved ones who suffer. But please, don’t claim to suffer just out of laziness, attention seeking, to cover up behavior deemed just immature, or whatever other reasons you have. It’s not cute, fun, or cool. It’s a real disorder/disease that humans SUFFER from. Not a cool token you can fall back on when you don’t want to grow up or are lazy.
When people say they have been “drug free”, “sober”, or “clean” but they take prescription pills, smoke weed, cigarettes, or drink. Ummmm last I checked all of those things are classified as drugs. I chose to use marijuana and yes it is a drug. No matter how you spin it. It is a healing drug. Prescription pills are healing DRUGS as well. You are not clean and sober when you are begging people for Xanax and kps